Friday, June 22, 2012

Femdom SeXStoRY

Preface 6 Introduction 12 One The Male Submissive Nature 28 Two The Superior Sex 39 Three The Latent Power of Eve: 54 The Spirituality of Female Domination Four The Seduction of the Female Dominant Nature 68 Five The Greatest Sex Organ: 81 The Psychology of Female Domination Six Love and Punishment: 95 Female Domination through Discipline Seven Victorian Discipline and Domination 105 Eight f***ed Feminization, Sissification and Domestication 118 Nine Role Reversal in the Bedroom: 134 Female Domination through the Strap-On Ten Sex is for the Woman’s Pleasure: 148 Orgasm Denial and Enf***ed Male Chastity Eleven Cuckolding: Female Liberation or Promiscuity? 168 Twelve Mental Domination: Humiliation Play 191 Thirteen The Three Faces of Eve: Goddess, Mistress and Queen 214 f******n Age Regression and Female Authority Figures 228 Fifteen Leather Sex: Fetishism and BDSM 241 Sixteen Reality Check: Staying Grounded with FemDom 268 Appendix A The Psychoanalysis of the submissive male 281 Appendix B Resource List 289 5 The Submissive Nature of Man Why did this scene have such a profound effect on some men? After all, it was intended to be a comedy and the scene was meant to be funny. This scene was powerful because the woman represented loving female authority to these men. She was sweet and kind in public, but a real Bitch at home. She broke her male down through D&S but then was nurturing toward him once he was broken. Again, a short scene in a movie but to the submissive male like Steve, it triggered his desires and touched him at his core nature. The reason FemDom stories, pictures and scenes in movies shake men at their core is because they touch men at their core. Their submissive nature becomes unleashed. It was there all the time but they never knew it was there until they discovered the world of Female Domination. Female Domination did not invade their brains through pop culture, literature or the media. No, their submissive desires were there all the time but those desires needed to be freed. The analogy I like to use is as follows. A man could have a million dollars in his bank account, but if he did not know the money was there, he would never spend it. He would live his life thinking he was poor when in fact he was rich the entire time. Then if one day out of the blue, someone contacted him and said, "Hey, you have a million dollars in your back account", a light would come on and he would get excited and he would go and use that money. Did that money come out of left field and invade his bank account? No, it was there all the time but he needed a revelation that it was there. That is what happens concerning Female Domination. A man’s submissive nature is there all the time, birthed into him and cultivated by c***dhood and adolescent experiences but it is lying dormant. Then out of the blue, he comes across literature about Female Domination or a scene in a movie that portrays Female Domination, and that submissive nature comes alive. Now it will dominate his thoughts but not from without but from within. It is perfectly natural for a man to desire to submit to the female gender. Once he has that revelation, that revelation frees his submissive nature and brings it to the forefront of his thoughts and desires. It happens to men over and over again. Most of the time it happens when a male comes into puberty or is a teenager or when he becomes a young adult. But it also happens later in life in some males because they have not yet experienced that trigger until later in life. Alan is a successful lawyer who counseled with me about his submissive desires toward women. Alan had submissive desires as far back as he could recall. When he was in his early twenties and had his first apartment, he would be overcome with the desire to be dominated by a woman (usually triggered by film, television or literature). Alan did not understand this desire but once it came upon him, he would seek out FemDom magazines or even mainstream magazines with dominant looking women. Alan would place himself in bondage and fantasize that a woman was whipping him or sexually dominating him. He would stand his mattress against the wall of his bedroom, tie himself up against the mattress (leaving one hand free), and he would gaze upon the pictures of the magazines that he had cut out and taped to his bedroom wall. Alan would then slap his erect penis over and over with his free hand, pretending that it was the woman from the picture who was slapping him. Kevin is a financial advisor. He is successful, handsome and happily married. He confessed to me that when he was an adolescent, a picture of a sexy woman in a magazine would make him feel submissive. Kevin did not desire to have sex with her but rather he wanted her to dominate him. He remembers taking his b*****r’s Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue or one of his mother’s beauty magazines and he would flog himself with his belt (in the privacy of his bedroom with the door locked and the stereo turned up high) while he fantasized that it was the beautiful woman in the magazine that was flogging him. Why? Where did this desire originate from? He had loving parents who never abused him. It was as if he was born with this desire. Phillip is a teacher and he recalls similar experiences in his c***dhood. He would sneak his father’s Playboy magazines into his room and pretend that the naked models were dominating him. He even recalls the time he took a carrot out of his parent’s refrigerator and took some Vaseline and penetrated his own rectum with the lubricated carrot as if it were a dildo. He fucked himself pretending that it was the beautiful Playboy model that was dominating him. Phillip was only ten years old at the time. James had a reoccurring dream when he was only six or seven years old. In this dream, Peter Pan was a redheaded female and she would come to his room, take him by the hand, fly him up into the clouds and lay him in this pink cloud made of a sticky Jello-like substance. In his dream, James would struggle to get free but he could not move. The female Peter Pan would stare at him and enjoy watching her male captive struggle until he eventually surrendered to her. James was only a c***d but even as a c***d, he desired to be dominated by a woman. He did not seek this out. He had never viewed pornography or read any FemDom literature. He was an innocent boy, yet the desire to submit to the female gender was birthed within him and found its expressions through this dream. Peter Pan was played many times by women on both television and the stage. Sandy Duncan played Peter Pan for years. Red hair represents dominance, as many redheaded women are aggressive and feisty. The cloud represents a state of subspace. The color of the cloud, pink, represents the feminine. The Jello substance represents bondage and fetishism. James knew of none of these things as a c***d yet he had this reoccurring dream. James recalled another dream he had as a c***d. In this dream, he was a patient in a hospital bed and this redheaded nurse came to him and removed all of her clothes. She then climbed on top of him and sat her bare bottom on his face. He could not move and he struggled to get free but to no avail. He finally surrendered to her and he felt at peace. James is a spiritual man who grew up in a Christian home. Later in life he married a Christian woman who had an out-going personality. He confessed to her about his submissive desires and after struggling with the concept of Female Domination, she finally embraced the lifestyle and took control over James and her marriage. Her name is Kathy and she is a redhead. She also once played Peter Pan in a school play and she now works as a nurse. A coincidence? Perhaps but Kathy and James like to think that Female Domination was their destiny. Sometimes the desire to be dominated by a woman can become extreme and occupy a man’s thoughts to the point where he becomes unproductive in life. Jeremy experienced this when his submissive nature was triggered from reading an article in an Adult magazine. Jeremy explains. “Back in 1982, I was a freshman in college and I read an article in Club magazine titled the “Kalmann Diaries”. It was a story about a 35 Alan is a successful lawyer who counseled with me about his submissive desires toward women. Alan had submissive desires as far back as he could recall. When he was in his early twenties and had his first apartment, he would be overcome with the desire to be dominated by a woman (usually triggered by film, television or literature). Alan did not understand this desire but once it came upon him, he would seek out FemDom magazines or even mainstream magazines with dominant looking women. Alan would place himself in bondage and fantasize that a woman was whipping him or sexually dominating him. He would stand his mattress against the wall of his bedroom, tie himself up against the mattress (leaving one hand free), and he would gaze upon the pictures of the magazines that he had cut out and taped to his bedroom wall. Alan would then slap his erect penis over and over with his free hand, pretending that it was the woman from the picture who was slapping him. Kevin is a financial advisor. He is successful, handsome and happily married. He confessed to me that when he was an adolescent, a picture of a sexy woman in a magazine would make him feel submissive. Kevin did not desire to have sex with her but rather he wanted her to dominate him. He remembers taking his b*****r’s Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue or one of his mother’s beauty magazines and he would flog himself with his belt (in the privacy of his bedroom with the door locked and the stereo turned up high) while he fantasized that it was the beautiful woman in the magazine that was flogging him. Why? Where did this desire originate from? He had loving parents who never abused him. It was as if he was born with this desire. Phillip is a teacher and he recalls similar experiences in his c***dhood. He would sneak his father’s Playboy magazines into his room and pretend that the naked models were dominating him. He even recalls the time he took a carrot out of his parent’s refrigerator and took some Vaseline and penetrated his own rectum with the lubricated carrot as if it were a dildo. He fucked himself pretending that it was the beautiful Playboy model that was dominating him. Phillip was only ten years old at the time. James had a reoccurring dream when he was only six or seven years old. In this dream, Peter Pan was a redheaded female and she would come to his room, take him by the hand, fly him up into the clouds and lay him in this pink cloud made of a sticky Jello-like substance. In his dream, James would struggle to get free but he could not move. The female Peter Pan would stare at him and enjoy watching her male captive struggle until he eventually surrendered to her. James was only a c***d but even as a c***d, he desired to be dominated by a woman. He did not seek this out. He had never viewed pornography or read any FemDom literature. He was an innocent boy, yet the desire to submit to the female gender was birthed within him and found its expressions through this dream. Peter Pan was played many times by women on both television and the stage. Sandy Duncan played Peter Pan for years. Red hair represents dominance, as many redheaded women are aggressive and feisty. The cloud represents a state of subspace. The color of the cloud, pink, represents the feminine. The Jello substance represents bondage and fetishism. James knew of none of these things as a c***d yet he had this reoccurring dream. James recalled another dream he had as a c***d. In this dream, he was a patient in a hospital bed and this redheaded nurse came to him and removed all of her clothes. She then climbed on top of him and sat her bare bottom on his face. He could not move and he struggled to get free but to no avail. He finally surrendered to her and he felt at peace. James is a spiritual man who grew up in a Christian home. Later in life he married a Christian woman who had an out-going personality. He confessed to her about his submissive desires and after struggling with the concept of Female Domination, she finally embraced the lifestyle and took control over James and her marriage. Her name is Kathy and she is a redhead. She also once played Peter Pan in a school play and she now works as a nurse. A coincidence? Perhaps but Kathy and James like to think that Female Domination was their destiny. Sometimes the desire to be dominated by a woman can become extreme and occupy a man’s thoughts to the point where he becomes unproductive in life. Jeremy experienced this when his submissive nature was triggered from reading an article in an Adult magazine. Jeremy explains. “Back in 1982, I was a freshman in college and I read an article in Club magazine titled the “Kalmann Diaries”. It was a story about a 35 masochistic man that was tortured and dominated by a wealthy sadistic woman. This story contained some very intense and vivid details about how this woman whipped and abused this man. She had a sound proof room where most of this took place. When I read this story, something went off on the inside of me and from that moment, I became obsessed with female domination and sadistic women. The thing that I found the most bizarre yet exciting in the Kalmann Diaries was how this woman trained this man to be her human toilet. She called it Immense Body Service (IBS) or something like that. The description was so disturbing and yet so sensual and exciting. This woman would always relieve herself in this man’s mouth each night before she went to bed and then she would beat his balls. Like I said, she was very sadistic and this excited me to no end. My life took a most unusual turn from that day. I was studying to be a computer programmer in college but I never finished getting my degree. I became so obsessed with female domination and the subject of sadistic women that my schoolwork and my social life suffered. I purchased every magazine and book on the subject that I could find. I was use to buying an occasional Penthouse or Club magazine for around 3 dollars a piece but now I was buying 8 and 9 dollar fetish and female domination magazines by the score. I bought videos and 8mm movies and I roamed from adult bookstores to old paperback exchange bookstores looking for any kind of books about sadistic women dominating men. The more I read, the more my appetite grew for female domination. I spent days upon days and weeks upon weeks fantasizing about being a masochistic male to a sadistic woman. I went through my entire savings that my father had given me for my education. Once I was broke, I wrote some computer software and sold them for income. I worked as little as possible to live and to finance my obsessive habit of indulging in female domination. Most of my time was spent searching for literature about female domination and seeking out the sadistic woman of my dreams. I joined Fetish and S&M groups, I attended fetish parties in California and New York, and I placed hundreds of personal ads in kinky contact publications. I met some interesting people and had a few wild encounters but I still had not found my dream woman. 36 Then I answered an ad that I found in the contact section of one of the fetish newspapers. It was from a woman and all it said was something like, "Sadistic girl seeks sincere male to torture". I had answered similar ads before but they usually were just a professional Dominatrix trying to add to her clientele. This time, however, was different. After some letter writing and one very long phone call, I met this woman at a public bar. Her voice sounded so sweet and innocent on the phone so I didn't think this woman was as at all as she had advertised. When she came over and sat down at my table in that bar that night, I thought I would faint right there. She was beautiful and very dominant. She was the very fulfillment of my fantasies.” Jeremy went on to experience his own “Kalmann Diaries” with this woman only to find that reality was nowhere as enjoyable as the fantasy. In fact, the reality was the opposite and left Jeremy feeling empty and totally unfulfilled. “After I spent a week with this woman, I drove home and collapsed on my bed, a totally broken mess of a man. I wept and I shook and I just about had a total breakdown. I had no idea what day it was. I had stripes, welts, and deep bruises on my body from her whippings. I was ill to my stomach (from the IBS) and it would take me weeks to get my digestive system and bowels back to normal. Emotionally, I was a disaster. I never considered suicide or anything like that but I felt like I had totally wasted my life. I had thrown away my educational opportunity and wasted my money to pursue this obsession and now that I had experienced it, I was left unfulfilled and totally broken.” Fortunately, Jeremy got his life back on track, enrolled in a community college and got that degree in Information Technology. However, Jeremy is still seeking for submissive fulfillment. He no longer wants a woman to abuse him but he does desire to find a woman who will dominate him with loving female authority. His negative experience with the sadistic girl did not alter his desire to be in submission to a woman. Jeremy is wiser but still captivated by Female Domination. Each of these men experienced the powerful desire to submit to a female. Something happened at different times in their lives that triggered this desire and that trigger opened them up to the world of Female Domination. For some men, that trigger happened in their c***dhood. For 37 Then I answered an ad that I found in the contact section of one of the fetish newspapers. It was from a woman and all it said was something like, "Sadistic girl seeks sincere male to torture". I had answered similar ads before but they usually were just a professional Dominatrix trying to add to her clientele. This time, however, was different. After some letter writing and one very long phone call, I met this woman at a public bar. Her voice sounded so sweet and innocent on the phone so I didn't think this woman was as at all as she had advertised. When she came over and sat down at my table in that bar that night, I thought I would faint right there. She was beautiful and very dominant. She was the very fulfillment of my fantasies.” Jeremy went on to experience his own “Kalmann Diaries” with this woman only to find that reality was nowhere as enjoyable as the fantasy. In fact, the reality was the opposite and left Jeremy feeling empty and totally unfulfilled. “After I spent a week with this woman, I drove home and collapsed on my bed, a totally broken mess of a man. I wept and I shook and I just about had a total breakdown. I had no idea what day it was. I had stripes, welts, and deep bruises on my body from her whippings. I was ill to my stomach (from the IBS) and it would take me weeks to get my digestive system and bowels back to normal. Emotionally, I was a disaster. I never considered suicide or anything like that but I felt like I had totally wasted my life. I had thrown away my educational opportunity and wasted my money to pursue this obsession and now that I had experienced it, I was left unfulfilled and totally broken.” Fortunately, Jeremy got his life back on track, enrolled in a community college and got that degree in Information Technology. However, Jeremy is still seeking for submissive fulfillment. He no longer wants a woman to abuse him but he does desire to find a woman who will dominate him with loving female authority. His negative experience with the sadistic girl did not alter his desire to be in submission to a woman. Jeremy is wiser but still captivated by Female Domination. Each of these men experienced the powerful desire to submit to a female. Something happened at different times in their lives that triggered this desire and that trigger opened them up to the world of Female Domination. For some men, that trigger happened in their c***dhood. For 37 Then I answered an ad that I found in the contact section of one of the fetish newspapers. It was from a woman and all it said was something like, "Sadistic girl seeks sincere male to torture". I had answered similar ads before but they usually were just a professional Dominatrix trying to add to her clientele. This time, however, was different. After some letter writing and one very long phone call, I met this woman at a public bar. Her voice sounded so sweet and innocent on the phone so I didn't think this woman was as at all as she had advertised. When she came over and sat down at my table in that bar that night, I thought I would faint right there. She was beautiful and very dominant. She was the very fulfillment of my fantasies.” Jeremy went on to experience his own “Kalmann Diaries” with this woman only to find that reality was nowhere as enjoyable as the fantasy. In fact, the reality was the opposite and left Jeremy feeling empty and totally unfulfilled. “After I spent a week with this woman, I drove home and collapsed on my bed, a totally broken mess of a man. I wept and I shook and I just about had a total breakdown. I had no idea what day it was. I had stripes, welts, and deep bruises on my body from her whippings. I was ill to my stomach (from the IBS) and it would take me weeks to get my digestive system and bowels back to normal. Emotionally, I was a disaster. I never considered suicide or anything like that but I felt like I had totally wasted my life. I had thrown away my educational opportunity and wasted my money to pursue this obsession and now that I had experienced it, I was left unfulfilled and totally broken.” Fortunately, Jeremy got his life back on track, enrolled in a community college and got that degree in Information Technology. However, Jeremy is still seeking for submissive fulfillment. He no longer wants a woman to abuse him but he does desire to find a woman who will dominate him with loving female authority. His negative experience with the sadistic girl did not alter his desire to be in submission to a woman. Jeremy is wiser but still captivated by Female Domination. Each of these men experienced the powerful desire to submit to a female. Something happened at different times in their lives that triggered this desire and that trigger opened them up to the world of Female Domination. For some men, that trigger happened in their c***dhood. For 37 others, it happened in their adolescent years or teenage years. For some men, they did not experience such a psychological trigger until they were young adults. But somewhere and at some time, an event occurred that touched them at their core and unleashed a sexual desire to submit to women. Are these men rare? Hardly! One need to only look at the growing profession of the Dominatrix to see how many males are searching for the experience of being dominated by a woman. Today there are literally thousands of websites where women are offering to dominate men in person or over the telephone. And more are coming on-line all the time. The supply is growing because the demand is growing. There is a real societal evolution that is occurring as the male desire to be dominated by the female is increasing at a rapid rate. Men will travel great distances and spend large amounts of money to find submissive fulfillment at the hands of a dominant woman. 38 Woman was created as much superior to man as the name she has received is superior to his. For Adam means earth, but Eve is translated as life. And as far as life is to be ranked above earth, so far is woman to be ranked above man. (Henricus Cornelius Agrippa, “Declamation on the Nobility and Preeminence of the Female Sex”, 1529) Why do physically stronger males who live in a patriarchal world have this desire to submit to the so-called weaker sex? Is it sexual? Are men so captivated by the beauty of the female that they feel inferior? Sexuality does play a role. Men have feared the beauty and sexuality of women from the beginning of human history. That is why most religions have tried to cover up women and install man-made ordinances to keep women clothed conservatively. Man knows that he cannot resist the beauty of the female so the only way he can stay in control is to keep the female covered in conservative and unflattering clothing. Be it Christian denominations that require women to wear a covering for their heads and forbids them to wear make-up or Muslim religions that require women to wear veils and dress in clothing that covers their entire bodies, religion fears the sexuality of women and places burdens on women because men cannot control their sexual thoughts and urges. Women are mysterious to men and men marvel at the beauty of the female. Women give off a sexual energy that men cannot resist. 39 Men also fear women beyond the sexual. Men have beaten down women and passed laws to keep women as second-class citizens for centuries. Why? If women were truly the weaker sex, there would be no need to mandate their dress or forbid them the same rights as men (such as the right to vote). Oppressive laws and customs to keep women in a subservient position suggest that it is not natural for women to be the submissive sex. If it were natural for men to be the dominant sex, there would be no reason for men to have oppressive laws and customs to keep women as second-class citizens. History is filled with examples of men suppressing women in order to maintain a patriarchal society. Yet, deep down men are fascinated by the female, they admire the female and they desire to submit to the female. What is clear is that men can only become the dominant sex by enforcing oppressive laws and customs against women. It is not natural for man to be the dominant sex if he has to put so much effort into keeping women oppressed. As these artificial laws and customs of a patriarchal society are removed, women will naturally rule. Deep down, men realize this. Society has mistaken the softness and the gentleness of women for weakness and submission. Likewise, society has mistaken the toughness and the macho ways of men for strength. Men are only stronger physically. Women possess the real strength, which is Intellectually, Emotionally, Spiritually, and Sexually. Unfortunately, most women do not realize this due to centuries of being told they were the weaker sex. Are women the weaker sex? The following data is from an article (The Weaker Sex) by Maggie Jones that appeared in the March 16th 2003 edition of the New York Times. “Men start out ahead: 115 males are conceived for every 100 females. But it's downhill from there. The male fetus is at greater risk of miscarriage and stillbirth. Overall, more newborn males die than females (5 to 4). Sudden infant death syndrome is one and a half times as common in boys as in girls. Mental retardation afflicts one and a half times as many boys as girls. As teenagers, boys die at twice the rate of girls. Men are 16 times as likely as women to be colorblind. Men suffer hearing loss at twice the rate of women. The male hormone testosterone is linked to elevations of LDL, the bad cholesterol, as well as declines in HDL, the good cholesterol. Men have 40 fewer infection-fighting T-cells and are thought to have weaker immune systems than women. Men have a higher death rate from pneumonia and influenza than women. By the age of 36, women outnumber men. Men ages 55-74 are twice as likely as women to die of heart disease. In the United States, men are twice as likely to die from parasite-related diseases (in part, some speculate, because their greater average size may offer parasites a bigger target). Stroke, cancer, diabetes, heart disease and accidents -- all among the top causes of death -- kill men at a higher rate than women. American men typically die almost six years before women do. By the age of 100, women outnumber men eight to one.” Here are some biological facts that are undeniable when one looks at the research. Women have better senses (smell, touch, taste, and sight). Women tolerate pain the best. Pound for pound, women are in fact stronger thus men are physically stronger only because of their overall size advantage. Women have greater flexibility and endurance. Women, as a rule, eat healthier. Women are biological superior (and complex), less susceptible to certain diseases and they live longer. So much for the weaker sex. But that is biological, what about intellectual? Are women more intelligent? Studies show that the human male brain is, on average, approximately ten percent larger than the female brain. However, certain brain areas in women contain more nerve cells. Women have a larger corpus collusum, the group of nerve fibers that connects left and right hemispheres in the brain. The part of the brain that allows us to think is known as “gray matter”. Researchers wanted to know if women have as much gray matter as men. It was proven that women have 55.4 percent gray matter, vs. 50.8 in men. Men listen with only one side of their brains, while women use both, according to information on brain imaging presented in November 2002, at the 86th Scientific Assembly and Annual Meeting of the Radiological Society of North America (RSNA). Here are some facts about a woman’s intellect. Studies show women do better in memory tests. Women have better language and communication skills. As we will see, women have more success in small businesses and women are making better managers, directors and CEO's. Women use more areas of their brain. Girls mature faster than boys, from potty training to emotional development. As we will also discover, women 41

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